| Funerals are a celebration of the life of the one who has died and for the comfort of family and friends left behind.
The type of service will reflect the needs of the particular
family and the circumstances of the death. A funeral for an
elderly grandparent will be different from the funeral for
a teenager killed in a car accident. The mourners and the
music will be very different too!
The Funeral Service
Remembering and telling the life story is usually the main part of the celebration – the family, special times in life, humour, work, particular strengths, interests and other activities.
People usually have a selection of readings – poems,
a reflection or Bible passage – these may have particular
meaning for you and/or the one who has died. Music is often
an important part of the service. It can be through playing
music from a CD or tape, instrumental performance, or by singing
songs or hymns.
Flowers, mementos and photos may also be used and placed on or near the casket.
Funeral services are usually led by a celebrant, minister or priest. Sometimes this role can be filled by a family member or friend.
The celebrant or minister will help you plan the service.
Participation
Family and friends can take an active role in the service.
Some may wish to pay a tribute and speak about the deceased
person’s life and their relationship with them. Others
may give a reading. Someone may also wish to sing or play
music.
There is also an opportunity for people to be pallbearers. These can be men or women and even small children can join in by holding ribbons attached to the casket.
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